Still Waiting

I am still waiting for change...why is getting out of a rut sooo difficult? I NEED motivation, but cannot find it. It's so frustrating knowing what needs to change and what needs to be done but not being able to make yourself do it. I have read a few books on this stuff lately. They are all full of good advice but none of them can make me change. What does it take? I certainly do not know. I am working on it though and hopefully will find a way. SOON...I'm desperate!